Sex and Second Life

This site is a true reflection of my comings and goings within the virtual platform known as Second Life, it is mostly my first person recollections of anything happening. Enjoy the read and do follow and share if you liked what you found

PLEASE, DON’T LEAVE ME

What’s best when faced with a difficult choice and your feelings are involved? What to do when you fall for a close friend but are unsure of what his/her feelings are? Would you put your own feelings on hold and wonder for months and months if it’s reciprocal for fear of losing the person?
A complex situation such as this one happens to a lot of people and more often than one would think. We all have faced the dilemma of experiencing strong feelings for a very close friend of undetermined sexual orientation; in my case however, it had a happy ending, but it involved some alcohol and me being blunt after a big long while of trying to interpret his signals and my own confusion -yes I was the one with the blurry sexuality-.
One of the things that really bug me is living a life in fear and the constant “what ifs”, I can’t cope with unresolved issues, but for some people the fear of loss or ruining something that seems perfect as it is, can be a solid valid argument for not even discussing it -also applies to coming out to family, friends and relatives-; so we play the situation by ear, tiptoe around it and most of the times, we settle.
Jim Rohn, an American motivational speaker once said “If you are not willing to risk the unusual, you will have to settle for the ordinary“. I don’t think that settling is the best option, if you take the chance two outcomes are always possible: to experience something extraordinary you would be missing if you hadn’t been honest, or like you initially feared, ruining something that was perfect as it was because your feelings kept asking for closure. But isn’t that 50 % of factual happiness worth the risk?
https://www.facebook.com/spikecls

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

Information

This entry was posted on December 3, 2011 by in confusion friends sexuality Spike Clemenceau.

Enter your email address to follow this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email.

Join 430 other followers

Past reads

slGoth

Gothic Lifestyle

Canary Beck

Second Life Avatar - Virtual World Maker

The SL adventures of Iasfy Zepp

This site is a true reflection of my comings and goings within the virtual platform known as Second Life, it is mostly my first person recollections of anything happening. Enjoy the read and do follow and share if you liked what you found

Dolly Fabulosity

This site is a true reflection of my comings and goings within the virtual platform known as Second Life, it is mostly my first person recollections of anything happening. Enjoy the read and do follow and share if you liked what you found

Bright Metallic

A sci-fi 'zine in SL

A Narcissist Writes Letters, To Himself

A Hopefully Formerly Depressed Human Vows To Practice Self-Approval

The Mind of Hiro

A place for me to get my ideas and thoughts out.

jennspoint

Life is a series of transitions. It’s not about where you are right now. It’s about which direction you’re going. Smile, and drink a frappuccino.

The Stylin Dude

A Men's Second Life Styling Guide

Beyond All Eyes

A Celebratory blog about the art of entertainment and the value of a spirited controversial opinion. *Photography, Music, Fashion, Makeup, Artist, Sculptors, Wise Quotes, and more* There is no subject that will not be touched. This is for simple entertainment, eye openers, soul nurturing, and brutal honesty.

Dream, Play, Write!

Today, make a commitment to your writing.

Beautiful Life with Cancer

Discovering the Gift

Chris Brake Show Podcast

LIVE! Every Wednesday @ 8pm Eastern / 7pm Central on StrangeLabel.com

My Life in Blog

The Story Of A Guy With Too Much Time On His Hands.

Hong Kong Lucida

A Thinking Street Photography Blog

%d bloggers like this: