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Relationship maths, when two negatives make a positive

A nice solid relationships that completes you is the eternal puzzle through which most people go both in second life and real life. What does it take really to find that perfect match that will both love you and understand you for everything you are and are not?

People are generally complex and sometimes feeling lonely will make one go to any lengths to accommodate a special someone you find worthy. But accommodating anyone will always be -in my honest opinion the kiss of death-, since you find yourself being something that you are not, to keep someone happy and by your side -accommodating is not the same as making compromises, that’s a whole other area-

You have to leave room for compromises, sacrificing a thing or two or making room for this person to click and fit perfectly in your imperfect equation, because when it comes to relationships, maths are usually applied, two negatives will make a positive, or simply put, two wrongs will make a right; being upfront and honest and negotiating relationship terms as things get serious also helps save you a few surprises and issues in the long run, because the keyword in a relationship is trust.

Una Relación solida y seria que te complete es el rompecabezas eterno por el que muchas personas pasan, ya sea en el second life ó en la vida real. ¿Qué hace falta para encontrar esa mitad perfecta que te amará y comprederá por todo aquello que eres y no eres?

Las personas, por regla general son entes complejos y a veces sentirte solo, hará que recurras a cualquier método, para acomodar a esa persona especial que consideras digna de tu tiempo y esfuerzo. Pero el acomodar ó cambiar cosas por alguien siempre será -en mi opinión personal- el beso de la muerte-, ya que te encuentras siendo algo ó alguien que realmente no eres, para mantener a una persona a tu lado -acomodar no es lo mismo que hacer sacrificios, esa es un area totalmente distinta-

Siempre debes dejar sitio para los compromisos, sacrificar una cosa o dos e incluso hacer sitio para todas aquellas imperfecciones de tu otra mitad, para que pueda hacer un click perfecto en tu equación, porque cuando se trata de las relaciones, las matemáticas siempre son aplicadas; dos negativos se convierten en un positivo, ó puesto de manera más simple, dos cosas malas hacen una buena; ser completamente sincero desde el principio también funciona, esto ayuda a negociar los terminos de la relación y te ahorra una sorpresa ó dos en el futuro, porque en todas las relaciones, la palabra clave es la confianza.

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