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The Sugar Daddy

I’ve always regarded courtship as working on a business deal, each party wants to get something out of the other one that will ultimately benefit themselves and to get this, they bring something the other person wants and doesn’t have; some have looks, others have brains and a few lucky ones have money, or the whole thing.

Some people, this being second life or real life -more so in second life- skip the whole courtship process and get right down to business and this is where trouble starts, you can’t seriously expect a good deal if you skip negotiation -I’ve seen people in second life go on dates and get engaged compulsively and within days-., you seriously need that leg room to get to know the person better, at least that’s how I see it.

My best friend in RL has never, in her adult life experienced proper courtship; she’s been married and divorced, goes on dates quite often but she has never been swept off her feet and made feel special. In her own words, it’s always been her doing the courting. This all changed a few days back when she ran into an old friend who is twice her age and simply put, loaded -as in filthy rich-. So how does a man twice her age, to whom money has no meaning gets a single mom to pay him some attention?. Money is his asset, so he offers courting and all things she has not experienced until then -see what you could have principle-

How ethic is it for you allow a person that you know has 99 % of possibilities of failure, to throw sweet words and get you expensive presents that are beyond your reach? Well, the way I see it, is all in the negotiation; as long as this person knows his chances of success are slim and still insists on sharing his economic well being with you, all is fair in love and war.

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Siempre he visto el cortejo como un trato de negocios, cada parte involucrada quiere conseguir algo que le beneficie y que el otro tiene y para conseguirlo, ofrecen algo que la otra no tiene ó que quiere tener; algunos son guapos, otros tienen inteligencia, y unos pocos afortunados tiene dinero o todo el conjunto.


Algunas personas, ya sea second life o la vida real -incluso más en el second life- se saltan la parte del cortejo y es allí donde los problemas comienzan, no puedes esperar que algo funcione si te saltas la negociación de lleno -he visto personas en el second life, quedar con gente y casarse compulsivamente en cuestión de días-, en serio, pienso que todos necesitamos un poco de margen para conocer a la otra persona mejor, o por lo menos es así como lo veo.

Mi mejor amiga fuera del second life, nunca ha sido cortejada en sus años de vida adulta; ha estado casada y divorciada, sale con chicos bastante a menudo pero nunca la han hecho sentir especial. En sus propias palabras, siempre ha sido ella la que ha hecho el cortejo y mostrado interés. Esto cambió hace unos días cuando se encontró con un viejo amigo que le dobla la edad y que puesto de manera simple tiene mucho dinero. Asi que ¿cómo se las arregla un hombre que te dobla la edad y para el cual el dinero no tiene significado alguno, que le pongas atención? El dinero es su mejor baza, así que durante el cortejo muestra todo aquello que podrías tener y que te estás perdiendo.

¿Cuán etico es que le permitas a una persona que sabes tiene el 99 % de posibilidades de fallo, que te hable bonito y te ofrezca regalos que en circunstancias normales están fuera de tu alcance?, el modo en el que yo lo veo, es todo parte de la negociación; siempre y cuando esta persona sepa que sus posibilidades son casi nulas y aún así insista encompartir su bienestar económico contigo, en el amor y en la guerra todo se vale.

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