Sex and Second Life

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The dating protocol

During the first few weeks of dating a new person, there are a number of unspoken rules that give you clear indicatives of where to go, what to do and the path the whole experience is taking; the whole thing is mostly about discovery though, finding out what he likes and doesn’t like, the music he listens to and this road of mutual investigation can be very exciting, but how do you know if it’s going somewhere or if it’s simple random sexual fun? Is there a way to tell them apart?

There are a certain number of things that only couples do -those hovering over the serious zone-, I am of the firm belief that only boyfriends have breakfast in bed, you know, sleeping over at his place, cuddling and falling asleep in his arms and hopefully having some waking up morning wood fun and then a nutritious breakfast.

Watching a movie together is also a clear indicative that things are progressing positively, but this only applies to actually going to a movie theater; watching a movie at home does not count as random sex partners -or even steady ones- generally use this as an excuse to get into your pants.

Do you have any other unspoken signs of serious progression towards a to-be couple? how about second life dating protocols? Do they change or do most guys go straight to sex and then see where it leads? In my personal experience it has only worked when I have applied dating rules from real life to the second life experience -taking your time to get to know each other-, as I think most of the time people are in too much of a rush to find a significant other in SL.

Dating is like coffee, it is meant to be brewed slowly, flavored and enjoyed… or else you’ll burn your tongue.

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Durante las primeras semanas de empezar a salir con una persona, hay una serie de reglas no escritas que te dan una indicación clara de a donde ir, que camino seguir y a donde se dirige todo; se trata de disfrutar del descubrimiento mutuo, averiguar lo que le gusta y lo que no, la música que escucha y este camino de descubrimiento mutuo puede ser divertido, pero ¿cómo sabes si progresa de manera positiva ó es sólo sexo? ¿hay alguna manera de distinguirlos?


Hay una serie de cosas que solo las parejas hacen -ó aquellos que bordan la zona seria-, soy de quellos que creen firmemente que sólo los novios toman el desayuno juntos, ya sabes, quedarte a dormir, dormir abrazados y si hay suerte, despertate “feliz de verle” lo que conllevará a algo de diversión adicional antes de desayunar.

Ver una película juntos también es un claro indicativo de que las cosas progresan de manera positiva, pero esto sólo se aplica a el acto de ir al cine juntos, ver una peli en casa no cuenta ya que los polvos ocasionales -ó incluso los amigos con beneficios- usan por regla general esto como excusa para sexo.

¿Tienes algún signo claro de relación seria que no haya sido cubierto aquí? ¿qué hay del protocolo de citas en el second life? ¿Cambia ligeramente ó la gran mayoria de los chicos van directo al sexo y luego ven a ver a donde lleva? en mi experiencia personal sólo ha funcionado de manera pósitiva cuando he aplicado las reglas de la vida real a la experiencia de “salir” con alguien en el second life -tomarte el tiempo suficiente para conoceros-, ya que pienso que la mayoría de las personas tienen demasiada prisa por encontrar su media naranja en el second life.

Salir con alguien es como hacer café, tienes que hacerlo despacio, saborealo y disfrutarlo… o te quemas la lengua.

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