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The Erotica of sports

What compels a group not particularly known for following sports, to watch an event like the super bowl? I personally don’t believe in labeling communities like most people do, but when all normal activities gay men do come to a halt because of a sports event, one does wonder.

This could be due to a number of factors, maybe we do enjoy sports as a general rule? the fact that straight men -that we know of- get sweaty and out of breath while touching each other? but I think it is mostly due to the erotica of sports, I know it, you know it, they know it and it’s ok, sex sells; which explains why as of late for the past number of years, key sport figures either model calendars or underwear in very insinuating poses to fuel our fantasies -and when it comes to soccer, there’s the random footballer “caught accidentally” in the buff either at a public beach or in the balcony of their hotel room-

In all fairness, sport gear is not thought out or planned to be sexy neither is the interaction between team players, but most of the time the close body contact motivated by the heat of the moment while engaging a competitive sport can give way to some situations that will stimulate any type of fantasies. A big part of it is -and I firmly believe this-, that no matter how gay and how much we claim to hate sports, we are first and foremost men: testosterone driven and competitive by nature, so in the midst of our glitter and glamour fabulousness, given to us by the power invested in us by the LGBT community, we enjoy competition.

I don’t actively follow sports, but there are key occasions -such as the superbowl, World cup finals or any other crowd gathering event- when I do enjoy watching it with a group of friends and letting my competitive and primal nature out, while rooting for a team.

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¿Qué empuja a un grupo de personas no conocidas de forma pública por seguir los eventos deportivos, a ver un evento como la super bowl? Yo no creo en poner etiquetas a grupos cómo hacen muchos, pero cuando las actividades habituales de los hombres gay, paran en seco a causa de un evento deportivo, uno se hace preguntas.

Esto podría ser debido a un número de factores, ¿a lo mejor disfrutamos de los eventos deportivos por regla general? ¿a lo mejor es el hecho de disfrutamos ver como hombres heterosexuales -que nosotros sepamos- se toquen y queden sudorosos? yo creo que es principalmente debido a la erotica de los deportes, yo lo sé, tu lo sabes, ellos lo saben y no pasa nada; el sexo vende. Esto explica el por qué, durante los últimos años, figuras deportivas importantes han decidido modelar calendarios o ropa interior en poses bastantes insisuantes para alimentar nuestras fantasías -y en cuanto se refiere al fútbol europeo, siempre hay alguno que “pillan” desnudo en alguna playa ó en el balcón de su hotel-

Para ser justos, el equipamiento deportivo no está pensado para ser erótico y tampoco lo es la interacción entre jugadores, pero la mayoría de las veces, el contacto cuerpo a cuerpo durante el calentón del momento en una competición, da pie a situaciones que estimulan cualquier tipo de fantasías. Una gran parte de ello -y soy un firme creyente de lo que voy a explicar a continuación-, es que no importa cúan gay seamos y cuanto digamos que odiamos los deportes, somos ante todo hombres; llevados por la testosterona y de naturaleza competitiva, así que en medio de nuestra fabulosidad, investida en nosotros por el poder de la comunidad LGTB, disfrutamos de la competición.

Yo no sigo de manera activa ningún deporte, pero hay ocasiones señaladas -cómo es el caso de la superbowl, la final de la FIFA ó cualquier evento que reúna a grupos- cuando disfruto de ver un evento deportivo con un grupo de amigos y doy rienda suelta a mi instinto competitivo y básico, mientras apoyo a mi equipo.

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