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Thicker than blood…

Sometimes there are certain things you want out of life that you consider will bring you happiness and due to a number of reasons don’t quite happen in the way you expected them, but the end result is better than that which you wanted in the first place.

This can apply to that hunky friends you’ve had the hots since you can remember, a job or any either area in your life, but I am referring more specifically to gay friendships; much like straight friendships between a man and a woman, is complex if there is attraction and chemistry, but not impossible.

Gay guys are no different, and as a general rule you either seal the deal with sex at least once or you keep it platonic, but there is no middle ground -yes there are friends with benefits, but those end up in relationships or disappearing after a while of recrimination and hatred-, no grey areas to entertain. What happens however if a potential relationship was once in the works but both parties agreed to not sacrifice their idyllic friendship for fear of losing each other? Is it possible to go back to platonic grounds?

The answer would be no, you are either platonic or not, but there are always means for two people who love each other to remain good friends and that is by finding common ground where the needs of each can be met without involving romance. Sure the lack of sex and intimacy might be an issue but looking at the bigger picture, some bonds, those thicker than blood that resist the test of time, are worth fighting for.

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A veces hay ciertas cosas que deseamos en la vida que consideramos nos traerán la felicidad y que debido a un numero de razones, no terminan de ocurrir ó no lo hacen en la forma que esperabamos, pero cuyo resultado final es mucho mejor que el original de que lo que querías.

Esto se puede aplicar a ese amigo buenorro que llevas deseando desde que lo conociste, un trabajo soñado ó cualquier area de tu vida, pero me estoy refiriendo más específicamente a los amigos gay; igual que las amistades hetero entre un hombre y una mujer, es complejo si existe química y atracción sexual, pero no imposible.

Los gay no son tan distintos, y como regla general ó sellas la transacción con sexo ó lo mantienes todo el el plano platónico, pero no hay medias tintas -si vale, existen los amigos con derecho, pero eso siempre acaba en recriminación y odio ó en una relación en el mejor de los casos-, no hay areas grises que mantener. ¿Qué ocurre sin embargo si una relación potencial estaba formándose pero ambas partes accedieron a no sacrificar su relación de amistad bastante idilica por miedo de perderse el uno al otro? ¿Es posible de regresar al area platónica?

Mi respuesta seria negativa, ó eres platónico ó no lo eres, pero siempre hay formas de que dos personas que se aman mantengan una sólida amistad y es encontrando un terreno común, donde las necesidades de ambos sean llenadas sin involucrar el romance. Seguro que la falta de intimidad y sexo puede resultar un problema, pero al mirar todo el conjunto, algunos vínculos, aquellos más densos que la sangre que resisten la prueba del tiempo, valen la pena el esfuerzo.

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