Sex and Second Life

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Sexual Faux pas

All things in life, it being second life or real life have a certain protocol and acceptable social behavior when interacting with people under those situations, but is there an acceptable code and protocol when it comes to the intercourse? Is anything valid in order to achieve orgasm while having a good time?

Abandoning yourself is where most sexologists will agree with me, hence inducing a more pleasurable experience; good sex is basically based on getting intimate with another person and focusing but not really worrying about the task at hand, but there are some things that some might enjoy being added or happening during the act itself than others might not like so much.

I always either experiment -get a feel of the ground as we go, in figurative speech- and if it’s a long term sexual partner, I do discuss later the things I have enjoyed -this usually during cuddling- and those that didn’t quite do it for me. Here’s a short list of the most abhorrent things that have happened to me or friends during sex.

1. Dirty talk that becomes rambling: When dirty talk is no longer kinky but a big long monologue that instead of exciting you produces the opposite effect. Learn to procure doses of this at appropriate times, all extremes are negative.

2. Silent sex: This is wrong, specially in second life where all you have is the avatar, voice and good emoting to get you in the right mood. Some people in real life tho do not enjoy the talk or comments of whats being done, but at least some moaning is always appreciated.

3. Dirty bits: If there is potential sex at hand, don’t use the excuse that you were caught in the moment and forgot to clean properly, there is always, ALWAYS time for proper hygiene.

4. I came, I conquered, I’m done: There’s nothing I particularly find more pleasurable than procuring my sexual partner pleasure by trying to discover -or doing things that have been done to me- what they like and making sure they have climaxed. There’s nothing worse than doing it with a guy that is only worried about their own orgasm and once they do is game over -some log off in SL so all that’s left is you and that poseball-, consider the other person and you will find your overall sexual experience better.

Sex, like all things in life only takes some involvement and common sense, but sometimes people shed that along with their clothes.

Todas las cosas en la vida, ya sea esta en el second life o la vida real tienen un cierto protocolo y reglas sociales a seguir cuando interactuamos con personas en estas situaciones, pero ¿hay un código de comportamiento aceptable cuando nos referimos al sexo?¿Vale todo cuando se trata del sexo y nuestra misión es alcanzar el orgasmo?

Abandonarse a la situación es lo que la mayoría de sexólogos recomiendan, para inducir así una experiencia más placentera; el buen sexo es básicamente intimar con otra persona y concentrarse en lo que se hace, sin preocuparte demasiado en detalles específicos, pero hay algunas cosas que algunos disfrutan hacer o añadir que otros no encuentren del todo agradables.

Yo siempre suelo experimentar -tantear el terreno sobre la marcha- y si es una relacióna largo plazo, suelo discutir lo que me ha gustado y los que no -por lo general durante el abrazo y caricias posteriores- señalando especialmente aquellas cosas con las que preferiría no tratar. Aquí hay una pequeña lista de cosas que me han pasado a mí o a mis amigos durante el sexo, todas ellas dignas de reseñar y en mi opinión horrendas.

1. Cuando el lenguaje guarro es excesivo: Cuando ya no pone sino que se convierte en un monólogo absurdo y en lugar de ponerte produce el efecto contrario. Intenta dosificarlo ya que los extremos son malos.

2. Sexo siencioso: Es por concepto malo, especialmente en el second life cuando todo lo que tienes es el avatar, la voz ó incluso el “emoting” para ponerte en situación. Algunas personas en la vida real no disfrutan de la conversación o comentarios durante el sexo, pero por lo menos que la persona con la que estás gima un poco no está mal.

3. Los apéndices sucios: Si te encuentras con una situación en la que hay sexo potencial, no uses la excusa de que te atrapó el momento y no te dió tiempo, siempre, SIEMPRE hay tiempo para una higiene adecuada.

4. Me vine, conquisté, ya se acabó: No hay nada que me produzca más placer que asegurarme que mi pareja sexual selo está pasando bien intentando averiguar -o hacer cosas que me han hecho- los que les gusta y asegurarme de que alcancen el climax. No hay nada peor que montartelo con un tío al que solo le preocupa su propio orgasmo y una vez allí, se acabó el juego -algunos en second life se desconectan y te quedas solo con tu calentón-; intenta considerar a la otra persona y verás como el sexo mejora y resulta incluso más placentero.

El sexo, como todas las cosas en la vida involucran un poco de esfuerzo, sentido común y respeto, pero a veces parece que algunos se dejan todo eso junto con la ropa

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This entry was posted on February 9, 2012 by in emoting, Protocol, Second Life, Sex, SPIKE CLEMENCEAU, virtual, voice, voice chat.

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