Sex and Second Life

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Pleasing the crowds

When writing a blog that many people read, you basically do it for a number of reasons, there are the ones that want notoriety, some an outlet to vent and let their creative juices flow, others simply the traffic and attention adsense from google and other types of online profit from the hours and work they put into their own personal space, which is your page.

For me it all started as a paid project at gayworldsnews, led and created by our beloved philanthropic Fabrice Snook (RIP), who made a difference in the way we experience gay second life, either inworld or on social platforms. For a number of reasons, I never saw myself adding more writing hours to my days -that’s a real life info you all will have to guess-, specially to my second life / Facebook experience, but for some strange reason, Fabrice thought I’d fit it, and I’m glad he did; working with him was a true privilege and the minor success this blog and gayworldsnews has, both surprises me and honors me in many levels.

For me it’s mostly an outlet, a way to share a bit of my second life day to day experience with all of the people out there, familiar with the platform or not, hopefully bringing some light into the marvelous experience that is second life and helping others who might be going through issues similar as mine. After a while, you start becoming a public figure, at first you are not really aware of how far your words go and how many people it reaches, until you start to accidentally “pleasing the crowds”

I don’t entertain extra-marital sex much, unless the person pushes the right buttons and it sticks to what it is. I do have this verbal agreement -discussed and negotiated- with my SL partner, that during long periods of ofline time on his part, I am free to play, as long as he doesn’t get replaced, or I don’t do things I only do with him -yes, I won’t elaborate on this either-, so it works for us both as a couple.

It dawned on me that, as of today I won’t have private, discreet sex in SL, as the last three people I have done it with, have turned out to be blog fans and readers of yours truly, which is fabulous but a little weird, since I am told this fact… afterwards -so there are people actually coming online, wanting to meet me and then leading to sex-; there are many ways to please the crowds, I guess writing is just the one of them.

Cuando escribes un blog con muchos seguidores, lo haces principalmente por un numero de razones, los hay que lo hacen por notoriedad, algunos buscan simplemente una salida para sus jugos creativos, otros simplemente el tráfico y la atención que adsense, google y otras vias de generar ingresos en la red aportan al trabajo y horas que invierten en su tiempo libre y tu espacio personal, que es tu pagina.

Para mí todo empezó como un proyecto pagado en gayworldsnews, dirigido y creado por nuestro querido filantropo Fabrice Snook (QEPD), el cual hizo una diferencia en la manera que experimentamos la sociedad gay en el second life e incluso en las plataformas sociales fuera de este. Por un número de razones, no me veía invirtiendo más horas escribiendo en linea -esto es algo de información de la vida real que van a tener que adivinar o suponer- en mi experiencia del second life / Facebook, pero por alguna razón que desconozco, Fabrice pensó que encajaría en su equipo, y me alegro que así fuera; trabajar con él fué una experiencia increible y todo un privilegio, y el pequeño exito que este blog y gayworldsnews tiene, me sorprende y honra en muchos niveles.

Para mí, escribir es una vía de escape, una forma de dar rienda suelta a todo lo que pienso y de compartir my experiencia del second life con todo aquellos ahí fuera, familiarizados ó no con la plataforma, esperando arrojar algo de luz a lo que es mi experiencia del second life y ofreciendo algo de ayuda a todos aquellos que pueden estar pasando por situaciones similares a la mía. Después de un tiempo haciendo esto, te das cuenta de que te has convertido en un personaje público, al principio no te das cuenta de ello, ni del alcance que tienen tus palabras ó a cuantas personas llegan, hasta que empiezas a accidentalmente “complacer a las masas”

No suelo practicar el sexo extra marital con asiduidad, al menos que la persona me guste y se concentre en lo que realmente es. Si tengo este acuerdo verbal -discutido y negociado- con mi pareja en el second life, que durante largos períodos en los que él no esté conectado, soy libre de hacer y deshacer, siempre que no lo reemplace, y no haga cosas que sólo hago con él -esto tampoco lo voy a explicar-, así que funciona para ambos como pareja.

Esta semana caí en la cuenta, que ha dí ade hoy, el sexo privado y discreto en el second life ya no es posible, ya que las últimas tres personas con las que lo he practicado, han resultado ser fans y lectores de esta página, lo que me parece fantástico pero un poco raro, ya que me entero de esto… después -así que hay personas conectadose y buscando conocerme con intención ó no de que acabe en sexo-; hay muchas formas supongo de complacer a las masas, y escribir es sólo la primera.

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