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Gym Showers

The recent addition of a gym to our home SIM has brought to me this number of questions and theories I would like to elaborate on as I usually do. What brings out in us, as gay men -this is more focused on us boys even though I always try to be inclusive- the need to attend a gym? Most would say it’s the need society has engraved on our brains of having a chiseled near to perfect physique -which takes a lot of work and compromise-.

This concerned to real life, but given the low -almost non-existent- offers when it comes to mostly non-sexual -stress on the mostly non-sexual- SL gyms, I do see where my son’s plans were headed when he started the project, a social spot offering something we’re lacking with the sexual option there if you’ll have it. The gay community is centered, basically and mostly around sex; it is a nice way to kill time, and our avatars don’t really need workouts, so there are showers, a massage table and other things to include sex in your overall gym experience, so I do understand the amount of attention the sauna and showers are getting.

But our avatars are influenced by the surroundings, the SL experience is brain centered -censorial to a point- and I have come to enjoy, as many others frequent users now, doing the whole circuit: running, weights, yoga, sauna, followed by a synchronized shower -meaning I shower in RL while my avatar is afk-, this on a daily basis and not always centered on sex -I’ll have it if I’m offered, I am a man after all-. When it comes to real life though, I wonder if the showers get the same amount of attention ours in SL get; we do not have the same license to do things -or even get away with things- but after a nice work out, I do find comfort in a long shower and some eye candy, so possibly that is what we find alluring about gyms, workout for the body… and soul.

If you’d like to check it out, grab this towel and sneakers and join us

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La reciente adición de un gimnasio al SIM que llamamos hogar, ha traido ha mí muchas preguntas y teorías en las cuales pienso elaborar y compartir con ustedes como ya es costumbre. ¿Qué nos lleva como hombres gay -esto se centra más en los chicos, aunque siempre intento ser tan inclusivo como sea posible- a ir al gimnasio? La mayoría diría que es el concepto que la sociedad ha grabado en nuestro cerebros de tener un físico esculpido que roce la perfección -lo que requiere mucho trabajo y compromiso-.


Esto en lo que se refiere a la vida real, pero dado la poca -casi no existente- oferta de gimnasios en el SL no centrados exclusivamente en el sexo, empiezo a ver donde iban los planes de mi hijo cuando empezó este proyecto, un lugar social que oferte algo de lo que carecemos con la opción sexual, si te apetece. La comunidad gay está centrada, después de todo en el sexo, ya que es una forma estupenda de matar el tiempo, y nuestros avatares no necesitan ejercicio, así que también hay duchas, una mesa de masajes y otras muchas cosas para añadir el sexo a nuestra experiencia general en el gimnasio, así que comprendo la cantidad de tiempo que algunos le dedican a las duchas y la mucha atención que reciben.

Pero nuestros avatares están influenciados por su entorno, la experiencia del SL está centrada en el cerebro -es principalmente sensorial- y he llegado a disfrutar, como muchos usuarios habituales, de hacer el circuito completo: correr, pesas, yoga, sauna, seguido de una ducha sincronizada -es decir que yo me ducho mientras my avatar también lo hace-, esto es algo que hago a diario y no siempre centrado en el sexo -vamos que lo hago si la oportunidad se presenta que no soy de piedra-. Cuando se trata de la vida real, me pregunto si las duchas reciben la misma atención; no tenemos la misma libertad de hacer cosas que en el second life -o de salirnos con la nuestra en algunas- pero depués de una buena rutina de ejercicios, encuentro que alivio en una larga ducha y de algo de entretenimiento para la vista, así que a lo mejor esa sea la atracción que sentimos hacia los gimnasios, ejercicio para el cuerpo… y el alma.

Si quieres echarle un vistazo al gimnasio pilla la toalla y las zapatillas y unetenos.

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