Sex and Second Life

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Ignorance is Bliss…

Unless you are already ignorant, then the whole happy principle negates itself, you don’t know you why you are happy, since you don’t know to be living in ignorance, but sometimes information can truly rain on your parade and there are some things that -at least in my particular case- I am happy not knowing.

Both my sons are sexually active, I know this to be true and I rather not know the details, only thing that matters is the sound knowledge that they are being responsible while doing so; now when it comes to relationships there are things that are rather not shared with your other half -those that look best under a veil of mystery-, even if communication is THE KEY for any romantic relationship to work, some information is better not said or shared -this is where trust comes into play-.

But what happens to those who think they know -and are in fact under the wrong belief they hold the absolute truth-, when they truly don’t know half the story? Is it your unspoken duty to ruin the mirage of truth they have built around themselves?, my take on this would be that if it doesn’t directly affect you, it’d be best to let them live in that fantasy they enjoy so much, because unless you are frontally asked to reveal the truth to them, you’ll come as the bad guy -he who destroyed that marvelous fantasy world it had taken them so long to build-

Second life is no different to life itself, even more so because no matter how real it may seem to some long term users and how intense your feelings for your lover, SL family and so on, it is based on a virtual reality we create ourselves and for ourselves.

So keep it real, and if you don’t want to know the truth, don’t ask.

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One comment on “Ignorance is Bliss…

  1. BlackSheep
    July 12, 2012

    Amazingly said. I feel the only ones you should share your real self with are who you partner and your most important friends. And should those relationships end, everyone involved should at least be respectful of the time you spent together that was good and not reveal entrusted secrets no matter what. We are all pioneers of a new kind of love and life here in virtuality. Respect for all is a must.

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