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Legally Blonde

Yes, indeed I’m still alive and kicking, and this would be the part where you are all wondering what is it that I been up to that has prevented me from writing.

Among my many projects, designing and selling my creations in SL is one of my main ones; something that with the Men Stuff Fashion week and upcoming Spring line releases, has kept me from indulging in this.

as you can see I have undergone a radical makeover, basically because I felt it was time to both reboot and keep my look fresh, and given the positive feedback I have been getting because of it, I see that it was not a bad choice.

 My makeover however – and yes I decided to go back to blonde, as it was my haircolor for the longest time before platinum -, does come due to my divorce – in some cases needed – and despite it being one of the hardest things In have ever had to do, when you make the choice of ending a relationship you truly believed would be forever, it is not the fruit of an impulse, but a long meditated choice.

Apparently though, instead of having casual meaningless sex with the easiest, sluttiest ones in town – or in this case SL – your first impulse is to change your look, a new haircut, maybe a facelift too; this impulse made me wonder on why we jump to a makeover as our first resort to moving on.

Steven Spielberg once said that divorce changes you, it turns you into a child, helpless, lost and confused and most of the time, during those initial moments when you try and cope with your grief, a change of looks is needed, as it gives you a fresh start, a new outlook, a starting point to help you move on.

More of what I’ve learned from the experience is that much like your kids and personal possessions, it takes some time to decide who goes where and who keeps what, your friends also will take sides, depending on which side has the strongest pull – and yes, you are not short on surprises –

I’ll count my blessings if I can at least remain civil and keep a solid friendship with my ex, not only because I feel it’s what’s best for us but also because we have a child together, he who holds no blame on what happened.

Take it from me, no matter how heart breaking and difficult the right choice might be, and in Mrs Doubtfire words “marriage is bliss but so can be divorce”

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This entry was posted on April 28, 2013 by in break-up, couple matches, Divorce, makeover, relationships, Second Life, SPIKE CLEMENCEAU.

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