Sex and Second Life

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Should

Steampunk Angel

Picture modeled by Ryuusuke Obayashi

There are many things in life that we seem to be predisposed to as we reach adulthood we may not even be aware of, all depending on our cultural background and childhood experiences, there always seems to be a long list of things we deem as right or appropriate and others that are wrong or socially unacceptable for our age or gender; this long list of things that are gender or culturally specific seems to be changing as society evolves, but that influence is still there and does transfer to all our aspects of our lives, SL included.

Boys should wear blue and like sports and girls pink and play with dolls, want to get married and have babies, because that is what is expected of you as a person, women who are sexually active or aggressive are sluts but this is a somewhat accepted behavior on men, and the list goes on as you carefully examine all of those things you think you like and accept as normal, but have never quite stopped to think if you really are doing them because of you, or because it is expected of you -which is not the same-

Personally speaking I have never been the type to fall in a norm, gay men in SL are always expected to hang with a certain crowd or at a trendy place, be promiscuous and if you don’t you are literally an outcast or there is something wrong with you -even as an avatar in a non specific group you are expected to look and act a certain way, or you are considered a second class citizen-; in RL the same has applied in my case, I do what feels right for me, even if society doesn’t quite get it and I seem to be doing just fine.

I am a firm believer in equal treatment and opportunity for all genders and have raised my boys to never judge anyone and do what feels right for them, even if people around them -in most occasions your so called “friends”- will not agree, because at the end of the day no one SHOULD do anything they don’t want in order to please societal standards and the one person you SHOULD keep happy and do things for, is none other than first and foremost yourself.

I am not saying that society as a whole is wrong and neither I am encouraging anarchy, there are certain rules that are in place for a reason, which we should respect, for the simple and basic reason of a more harmonious coexistence, but when it comes to prejudiced notions, the only person you are making happy is everyone else, unless of course you are the type of person that is constantly seeking approval and praise from others, which is fine as long as it works for you, but not really my cup of tea.

At the end of the day the one person you SHOULD do things for is none other than yourself.

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