Sex and Second Life

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Digital getdown

Foreplay

Modeled by Cyrus Falconer and Hiroku Kamachi

I was watching a video on one of my favorite pages “Upworthy”, about the difference between Porn sex and Real Sex and with very interesting facts and without being overly graphic, they managed to present the idea that one cannot simply compete or even remotely compare a real intercourse with those portrayed in porn; whether is girth, stamina or preferences of both sexual partners, the experience will not be as fawless and intense as that of a porn movie and having those expectations will turn a generally pleasurable experience into a disaster.

With that in mind it is always helpful to keep in mind that porn is not only a fantasy but also edited, so only the good parts are shown, but this got me thinking… how about SL sex and how does it compare to a RL encounter -and where does it differ?-; well we can always start with the basics, pixel sex -as many refer virtual sex to- has the disadvantage of not having any real physical contact, but being an immersive experience, it can be very intense and this explains why sex in SL has so many followers and sells so much -this either on sex related merchandise or sims-

I have known of many out there who have crossed the RL line and have met their partners, only to find that the intercourse in RL was nowhere near what they had experienced for years and years in SL together, but they lack the needed body chemistry to make sex pleasurable; now let’s keep in mind that as real as SL sex may be and feel like, it is nothing more that transferred porn concepts.

You can control your girth, your stamina -I have been with people who have been able to go at it for hours- and recreate every single time your perfect concept of ideal sex, even use voice if you are not much into typing, but as much as we may be able to fool our brains into thinking SL sex is the way sex is supposed to be, it really isn’t.

There is the feel of skin, how your partner smells, the taste of their kisses and the weight of their bodies pressed against yours which makes SL sex -much like porn- a convenient alternative but not really a substitute.

So keep that in mind, Porn and SL Sex have a lot in common and as amazing and pleasurable as they both may be -even if they both allow us to experience things we would never even try in RL-, it is not RL sex.

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