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Virtual Transgender

Bailey

Modeled by Bailey Saxmundham

I met Bailey a number of years ago during one of my sets at a club I co-owned with a few friends, she came as a patron and I immediately fell in love with her cheerful and infectious personality, she is just the type of person that you want to have with you at a party, witty and funny at the right moments it is simply impossible to be in a bad mood when you are around her -even during the quick photo-shoot she made me chuckle once or twice-

She’s been in my friend-list since that first day and even though we are not really close friends, she is a person I IM for quick advice or perspective when I feel I need an unbiased female input on things; the amazing thing about Bailey however, is the fact that she is a gay man in RL, but that doesn’t stop me from considering her a woman by her own merit -very much a lady and an example a few women in-world could follow-

Bailey has engaged over the years in many projects, most taking place at the London sim, and is self declared pixel celibate until the right guy comes along, never has she felt the need to pretend being something she is not or engaging on catfishing -pretending to be a person or a genre you are not in RL, something that in SL happens quite often-.

When it comes to feminism I have always entrusted her vision on the topic, since I feel having a foot on both worlds will make her the right judge of what is right and what is simply too much; I do have a number of friends in-world that are openly transgender and others who switch back and forth depending on the situation, never hiding their true genre or selves in RL, but choosing to live their Secondlife the best way possible for them.

I am unsure if there are any transgender support groups, but if any of you know of a page or sim offering these, please comment below; this one goes out to The Baileys and the Ravens and the other amazing people out there, who have made of their chosen genre a beacon others can not only follow but benefit from.

You are free to experiment, it is SL after all… but catfishing will never have a solid reason or excuse.

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4 comments on “Virtual Transgender

  1. petrvanbeeck
    December 13, 2014

    I love Bailey – I only ever run into her at Second Pride – but her spirit and energy is infectious. She makes me smile ALOT.

    • Spike
      December 13, 2014

      She is one of a kind indeed

  2. Bailey Saxmundham
    December 14, 2014

    Thank you so much! I am honoured and humbled.

    • Spike
      December 14, 2014

      Nothing but the truth Bailey 🙂

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