Sex and Second Life

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Me, myself and I

Spike musicA while ago I reached an impasse in my SL journey, after a good amount of years worrying about whether my family was happy and my legacy would survive, becoming a product and a brand that would produce enough money to pay tier and joining the back then popular groups, which would ensure the right amount of exposure and traffic towards, what I believed -at the time- was a joint effort involving all parties who surrounded me and often gave me praise.

But I never did start a fashion business or a club -that was a trend setter in SL clubs at the time- to get praise or recognition, I did it because I truly felt that I had to do it for those around me I had chosen to be my family and who I believed would be with me for years to come. But then I woke up one day realizing that RL HAD TO take the front seat, I no longer had time to spare to multitask or to sit texting on my phone while commuting, to some friend in SL who needed to be reassured about some impending catastrophe or drama he needed me to fix.

I watched today a video from a lecture / interview with Lady Gaga which pretty much described how I felt at some point during my SL journey, which simply became a turning point in my life -and which at the very end pretty much nails a description of how many behave around SL or worse SL in social media-

So I started drifting away, putting myself first and looking after my own happiness, and not surprisingly many “friends” and “family” simply disappeared -or fabricated an excuse to become victims-, because realistically, no one -except for my sons and the man I married- really cared about how I felt or what I wanted, they just wanted to be around me when it was good or convenient for them; I learned to say no or to simply ignore IMs or messages that did not involve impending death or something affecting me directly.

I have lost weight, I have started running every morning and feel healthier and better than ever and when it comes to my SL? it is amazingly quiet and I absolutely love it that way; I have gotten back into writing, photography and have surrounded myself with people who have been a testament again and again of what true friends and family are all about, the rest of them? I just wish them well and the best of luck in the world, but much like Lady Gaga said in the video: “When I look at myself in the mirror I say, this person I can go to bed with”

And that’s a great feeling, because the only approval that really matters is my own.

Watch the Video below.

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